You want to be actually healed from the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style.
Not working at it, not healing for the sake of healing.
You want to get to a place where you are healed, and happy.
You know it's possible, you just don't exactly know how.
You've tried so many things, and you're tired.
Tired of feeling this way, tired of things kind of working.
Tired of KNOWING so much, but not healing.
In love in a calm way
Standing so strong that pretty much nothing can trigger you
Feeling like you actually know what to do (in life and in relationships)
At peace
To be a former fearful avoidant who has healed, has gained so much wisdom and is now securely
Thanks to Functional Destination Psychology (the methodology Paulien developed working with fearful avoidants), we take your fearbrain along for the ride.
Instead of working against it, making your healing journey longer, harder and more confusing.
Deeply understanding the fearbrain and working with it, not against it, is the difference between successfully healing the fearful avoidant attachment style and never really getting there.
Many programs throw a bunch of information at you and hope something sticks. But Healed & Happy isn't a "one-size-fits-all"course.
You start by filling out a survey with a long list of questions. This helps us understand exactly where you are right now and what you need.
Everyone starts with the core healing pathway, designed to heal the most important things first.
After completion, you'll fill in another survey. Here's where it gets exciting - many see massive improvements already, after just the first pathway! (Even the ones that thought they would be the only ones the program didn't work for)
After completing the first pathway and filling in the survey, we assign you a new pathway based on your answers. And we keep going until you are healed!
This means that when people score the statement:
'"How much are you convinced you will mess up (sooner or later?)"
With an 8 when they start,
They score it with a 2 when they finish.
This average is across all questions, across all area's in life!
But you don't just want stats, you also want stories:
I have cried more times in the 3 days since I bought this than I have in the past 2 years. So much trauma has been released. I AM NOT EVEN DONE WITH PROGRAM and my bad thoughts the ones the course creator discusses and that I’m a bad person are subsiding. I’m feeling safer in my relationship. I know I am healing. I have been to so much therapy and none of it ever worked. I could only describe this program as the closest thing to taking a pill a day to heal yourself. I wanted to post a review before I am finished because I want others to know to try it. It does work. It really does work. My head is becoming a safe space go be. My life my future isn’t being pulled away from me because I’m a “bad person”. Thank you from the bottom of my heart paulien. I’m not done, less than halfway through and this is helping me so much. I plan to also employ psychotherapy as well. But this this is fast. It will help and its good to know YOU ARE NORMAL YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. YOU CAN HEAL. THIS HAS HEALED WOUNDS I HAVENT HEALED IN MY 27 YEARS OF LIFE.
"Just did Module 2 - Who you are. It almost brought tears to my eyes. This was the thing I was searching for the last 8 years Paulien, and maybe my whole life before that unconsciously due to attachment trauma.. My mind was so disorganized. I didn't know how to relate to myself and others. And after this I feel centered in myself. And I am very grateful for that. I approve this program so far cus you know, we (FA) can be quite motivated, so I have done some research. Thank you."
"I did a lot of work prior to Paulien's course and when I found her video's, much of the inner patterns I had came conscious too.. it all came together understanding they all stemmed from this attachment style. Hearing her experiences and the things she thought or has said, we're almost the same or very similar to what I had already been trying to process and heal in my relationship and within myself. The course I was in prior was all about facing your shadow self and being very conscious about how we were actually showing up. I gained insight, but it was shared in a way that for me put healing in a negative way. I love that Paulien truly emanates her love throughout the entire course and I can really feel this from her. And her sharing we are ok just the way we are today even if we choose not to heal."
After completing the first pathway and filling in the survey, we assign you a new pathway based on your answers. And we keep going until you are healed!
I know what it's like to want to heal.
I know what it's like to work really hard at healing.. for years.
And I know what it's like to finally BE healed.
And I don't regret a single second of the hours I put in.
Not the wasted hours healing things that didn't get me further.
Not the countless relapses, feeling like I'd never escape.
Not the moments I wondered if I was just doomed to live like this forever.
Because it got me here.
I am at peace.
I feel safe in love.
I trust myself.
I look forward to my life.
My body feels calm, my mind feels happy.
But if there had been a program like this when I was in the thick of it...
I wouldn't have hesitated for 1 second.
I would have paid $10,000 if it meant getting here sooner - with less suffering, less heartbreak, and more ease.
Because money is a renewable resource.
But time is not.
You can always make more money.
But you can't get back the years spent stuck in painful patterns.
The years of overthinking, doubting yourself, pushing love away, losing relationships or friendships, and feeling like something inside you is broken.
Healing doesn't have to take years.
Yes, it takes time. But every month, every year you can shave off is worth it.
YOU are worth that.
And you don't have to figure this out alone.
And yes, this will also work for you.
Almost everyone believes they're the only one the program won't work for.
And yet, Healed & Happy works.
It is time to let it work for you
